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If a relationship is not making you a better person, stop wasting your time.
January 12, 2016
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AJ Mihrzad
If a relationship is not making you a better person, stop wasting your time.
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Amen
Yep! Totally agree!
What about the people in between lol
What do you mean Malo?
People who are are good to you, but same time.. put you down lol
I’m following Malo Wasih question bc I have I similar situation, not a bad person but just doesn’t add anything inspiring or fun to my life
Malo if anyone puts you down, they aren’t good for you.
I don’t quite agree…it’s your responsibility to be good and better person not your partners…or friends or anyone you are involved with….and it’s normal that our partners (it can be anyone – the more emotionaly we are involved we are easier to be triggered) trigger within us some bad feelings and states….but it’s up to ourselves to face them and see what is really going on there…and yes, it would be nice that our partner help us with that so we can both heal…but it’s not necessary…most of times (95%) when we have huge emotional response (hurt, pain, rage) to our partner – has nothing to do with them…they just triggerd some very old wounds that are not healed…so we blame them for our state of being….who is captain of your emotional life? who is the ruler of your life?….it’s YOU…and of course I am not saying you should stay in relationship if you are constantly put down or being abused in any way (physical or emotional)…but ask yoursefl – where are you abusing yourself so that you attracted that kind of person in your life (who just confirmed what you believe about yourself) and even be with them for period of time? is that being kind to yourself and love for you? of course, not….so ask – what can you do to change all that?…gain back power and see what kind of shift will that bring…if you just walk away that won’t change a thing, you will find another that will “help” that pattern going on….and if you feel like you are in a vicious circle – ask for help…you great and worth of being loved 🙂
Interesting viewpoint Jazz
Great advice! I’ve been doing this & it makes a tremendous difference. Thank you.
Anytime Angela