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I need your Help with some Relationship advice!
November 9, 2016
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AJ Mihrzad
I need your Help with some Relationship advice!
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Some people either marry or have children with a person when they’re young and don’t take enough time to get to know the other person well enough, to make sure they connect on every level, or their own values and needs. I truly believe people need to be mature emotionally before putting themselves in these circumstances.
People’s personal journeys aren’t evolved enough to be in a relationship yet. Our expectations for what we want in others are too far ahead of what we “deserve” at the moment.
The older we get the more expectation we have.
Difficult – by dating via app, there is a huge social/anxiety barrier because you haven’t actually met the person.
Being honest, clear and vulnerable in asking for what you really want. People dont actually ask what they want and end up covering up their true feelings with feelings such as anger, blame frustration.
People don’t understand communication and as a result when someone has an emotional connection there is a deeper meaning to life and a love that goes beyond words or actions. Give everything. Leave nothing. Love like you’ve never been hurt. The more stress you have in your business or life can affect the outcome of your relationships. People don’t know what they want and therefore aren’t clear on what the outcome should be.
People fear being vulnerable. Without vulnerability, one cannot experience love. So, people play games with each other and that breeds frustration and impatience.
Go in with an open heart and mind ! Feel the energy Between each other … Words are words energies don’t lies..
Online dating is like a full time job and if you are an entrepreneur, ain’t got time for that
Equally play a roll in game playing.
It’s not so difficult … It’s the new trend people don’t have the time to go out and meet with so many obligations ..
Love that book AJ
GREAT book!!
That book is amazing!!
don’t listen to what they say. watch what they do
Another great one
Lack of communities, churches, places to meet and build friendships/relationships and family interactions with other families.
It’s my experience that men play more games and pit women against each other. Totally agree with reading the 5 Love Languages and also consider reading anything by Brene Brown!
Bc people are not authentic a& vulnerable
Yeah men start conversations on dating apps then stop responding …
Yes that’s u ?
You got it !!
Actually u made it awkward 😉
Can you put this in your article!!!
I’m really enjoying this live video ?
?????? thank you
I still believe in old fashion match making from friends.
People don’t know what real commitment is!
I met my hubby of 16 years through his friend I was dating lol
I wanna know your point of view …
Communication
Lack of communication and intimacy
Lust
I’m a psychotherapist and treat many couples. We are constantly discussing the need for creating an ongoing connection.
Defo communication
Can’t wait!
Yes read the book
Love that book
Lack of loyalty with so many new and countless forms of endless options …this generation doesn’t want to deal with hardship or working through things or trust ..everything is instant gratification and there is a shelf life for everything now with this generation including human connection …temptation has always been around ..social media just taps into that
Both
Respect for eachother & high values are missing.
Giving up too easily.
relationships fail because people lean on the other person too much instead of working on improving themselves. we need to be willing to improve ourselves and then improve others and then relationships will last. if you try to change someone in a positive way and they dont want to change after repeated attempts, they either dont trust u or they are stuck in their own ways and that relationship will need to end. spread positivity
Relationships fail because people want there partner to change to give things up but they themselves dont wanna change at all and grow. Before I attack my boyfriend in anyway I always look at my self first, look at my short commings. Communication is everything u have to talk, express your feelings respectfully without attacking your partner he/or she will not automatically know what is bothering you or what is on your mind. Be who you are from the beginning 100%
Too much superficiality. People are not being themselves. You cannot be onstage all the time.
Expectation without real communication ruins a relationship. There’s usually a healer and a victim in the relationship. The healer wants to fix the victim, and the victim wants to be fixed by the healer.
Once we stop being the healer or the victim in the relationship, then the love journey will be a lot easy to enjoy. A love relationship is about all about to share the love we already have in our individuality, so we can grow together while we continue to improve ourselves day in & day out.
People aren’t honest enough with themselves or with the other person.
I agree with Rose
Too much choice with social media . Nobody takes the time to really get to know 1 person
A lot of people online are all talk but no action.
Love all the feedback. Keep it coming!
Working on ourselves first is important personal development is great not holding a grudge too
Thanks Leah
1 they don’t present who they really are, thus attract bad matches. I see this down to lack of confidence
Hi i am in a relationship of 8 years n its been communicating and that means from the get go. Im in the web summit Lisbon and its talking about humanising texhnology, goid story telling to share an insight. Modern day is alot over online but just like a business trying to connect with people via online those online arent able to comminicate in the most authentic way. Ive always spoke bout everything im feeling from day one. Xxx
Thanks for sharing Lisa Wallace
People are looking for someone to fix rather than focus on themselves…
Great point Sharon Elia!
From a male point of view. I think a lot of people have such high expectations of their ideal intimate relationship that they forget about the type of person they need to become in order to attract their ideal partner. So I guess we need to know the type of person we are before we go through the process of attracting the right type of partner. Hope that makes sense AJ Mihrzad:)
Great point Danny Sayers. I totally agree with you about the high expectations
Value’s are lost and good reason for it is the candidates
Relationships are only difficult when your values aren’t in alignment, you lack effective communication & EQ.
Great share!