If the way you’ve been looking at it isn’t working, look at it differently.
“If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” — Wayne Dyer
Some of us are stubborn in our approach, even though our approach isn’t serving us. You can be right about the facts and your feelings and still have the wrong outlook.
Take a step back, see the bigger picture. What if they can’t change? What if they’re just not who you wish they were? What if—like you—they are a work in progress and need extra grace in this area?
Reframe the issue and refocus on what matters most. (Hint: Humans, relationships, love, grace…)