There are just 4 days left before Christmas!
Let’s assume you might experience a little family drama this time of year. Whether because they’re with you or because they’re not. Here’s your game plan:
- Shift from expectation to appreciation. Instead of needing something from someone, release them, and bless them. Family is a gift. Remember that. You can’t choose your family, but God did. He gave you the family he did as a gift. They are gloriously imperfect, but there’s something about them that’s important for who you are and who you’re becoming. Don’t forget that. Create boundaries for health, but be grateful and be a blessing to them.
- Create space for togetherness. Avoid over-planning or trying to do too much. It’s often our scheduling that stresses us out. Enjoy being together without expectations and agendas.
- Show up filled up. How do you fill up? Stillness, prayer, rest, exercise, sleep, speaking to encouraging people…. Do what you need to do to be at your best. There’s a temptation in our chaotic culture to spend our energy “out there” and give our family the leftovers. Resist that temptation. Schedule for your health. Fill up, pour out, replenish. Repeat.
- Remember your Source. When you’re still, reflecting, and refreshing, let the Spirit remind you who you are and whose you are. Your identity is secure and settled.
Be you, be confident, be a blessing, and enjoy your crazy family.
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